Accept Unconditionaly
Once Lord Buddha sat through the complaints a man had against his wife.
Finally he said, “Your marriage would be a happier one, if you were a better husband.”
“And how could I be that?” the man asked.
“By giving up your efforts to make her a better wife.”
Adjustment is not so much about changing for the sake of the other, as much as it is about accepting the other as he or she is!